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COCAINE?

how do i forgive my fiance' of the fact he used to do cocaine? we have a son due april 8,2009 and we're best friends, he's my world. but it's still in the back of my head... and when you are in love with someone, it hurts to even think of anything like that. i know he "used to" and i have forgiven him of course, but there's just something thats not letting me let go of it. it would be different if i had the same addiction, but i've never done any drugs in my life, i always stood outside the crowd. why am i feeling like this? before we were together, we talked about what we were looking for in each other, i told him i couldn't stand smoke. well he quit smoking that day after almost 2 packs a day and we have been together ever since. im 20 and he's 21 and ive never been so connected with someone like we are. he would never put anything between us to jeopardize what we have. but when it comes to me that he "used to" do those things, it hurts and i think of him as "weak" and a "follower". we've talked about it but i still cant forget. please give me any advice you can beside just "get over it." and i trust him more than anything, he has been clean for 2 years, even cigarettes. i know he would Never do anything again and i'm not mad at him for his past, i just can't "forget" it.

Public Comments

just forgive and forget and make sure hes still not using it
"USED TO" get over it.
When you say used to do cocaine. How long ago was it? Days, weeks, months, years? Was he addicted to it or just did it a couple of times?
he still uses or no / if no than u just let it go with out being mad. its a past im sure ur past isnt perfect everyone has there bad times i use to use myself and so did my current bf and we dont even stress on the fact. let it go u have more things to worry about it just seems petty if its in his past.
Forgive; and forget. The forgetting part is hard. But just try and trust him. Get drug test if it gets to the point where you are having problems with trust. I'm sure he won't want to ruin his relationship with his future wife, best friend, and his coming son.